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AT THIS POINT in my life, I can usually get an erection when I want one (which, as a sex writer, is pretty often). But that wasn’t always the case. I’ve struggled with getting hard on and off for years, ever since I was 17. Back in my college days, it was a real issue. Often, when I went to have sex with someone, I couldn’t get erect, and to put it kindly, it really fucked with my head. I was mad at myself and kept wondering what the hell was wrong with me. (I also had a few partners mad at me and wondering what the hell was wrong with me.)
